Quoting nickie7:

I was never normal.

Actually I had super human powers.

But then my therapist took them away...lol

I was never normal.

Actually I had super human powers.

But then my therapist took them away...lol

Quoting Petersh55:

Yes I must agree with what the point that the Ladies are making , but then most of the sort of Men that they seem to go for are good looking and not only Know it but use this fact to play about and then when they have got what they want skip to the next Woman . Surely it would be better to choose a Partner on Personality and Character rather than just Looks ,After all if a Man shows understanding ,and patience and is willing to make a great effort to please you and make you Happy , then surely he is worth giving a chance to whatever he Looks like . (Petersh55)

Yes I must agree with what the point that the Ladies are making , but then most of the sort of Men that they seem to go for are good looking and not only Know it but use this fact to play about and then when they have got what they want skip to the next Woman . Surely it would be better to choose a Partner on Personality and Character rather than just Looks ,After all if a Man shows understanding ,and patience and is willing to make a great effort to please you and make you Happy , then surely he is worth giving a chance to whatever he Looks like . (Petersh55)

Quoting AmuseMe:

Don't do it Bizzle! PLEASE, Put down the club!!

Re: bizzle49 write: DAYUM! having a good guy rep is sure a burden to carry lol...all I read about is the good girl bad guy syndrome...hmm maybe I have to go caveman and drag some woman about by her hair...unless she'd like that lol

In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

Quoting Nisi32132:

I totally agree with you petale46.
We a larger size due to whatever reason, heredity, nature or any reason, maybe we just like being larger. Good for us, that does not make us weak, needy,easy or appreciative of any attention from any thing that might come alone and throw us a bone.

Speaking for myself, I've been larger all my life, heredity and being molested by a pervert as a 12 year old. Having him whisper in my ear that his wife was a fat pig and I was stunning. Now part of me is larger to "protect" myself from that sort of pervert. I've been loved deeply by my ex and a LTR for 8 years. I know how to love, I know what I want from a relationship and I've thrown many men to the curb - gently...

I have yet to define "normal" I'm not sure there is a one definition. I strongly believe that we are all "normal" in our own unique way. That lends itself to one definition per person... if you get my drift.

We all have out benchmarks, go for it. If we find it great, if not then treat yourself, always, as you would have someone treat you.
That's my golden rule

Natalie

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petale46 write:
Unfortunately, some men think that because BBW are not the first pick for most men, we are not as choosy when selecting a partner. In their twisted mind, we'll just be so thankful for the attention that we'll grab the first man who offers. They think we are crushed with low self esteem and so desperate that we'll believe anything they say.

They are just having fun and don't care their fun is at someone else's expense.

I said some men... not all of them. Some are nice!! They have strong feminine sides...